She always goes first!
She never takes turns!
My fourth grader is currently using the curriculum Institute for Excellence in Writing. In one of the early lessons, the students were given a list of banned words. Words such as good, bad, like, and said were banned from their papers. The students were given a list of alternative words to use to make their writing more interesting to the reader. For instance, using words such as state, assert, claim, and announce rather than using say and said.
It has certainly helped to advance her writing ability.
My girls don’t fight often, but when they do it escalates quickly. This week has been one of those weeks. I was reminded (during an argument between the girls) of a rule that we have in our home that fits the “banned words” category. When they want to “report” on each other (tattle) they often say, “She NEVER or she ALWAYS.”
At the beginning of this year, I banned those words. I have to remind them every now and then but they understand that using those words isn’t accurate. There are very few instances in which someone ALWAYS or NEVER does something. It just isn’t a true statement. It is an unfair assessment.
Banning those words has actually caused the girls to pause before making an accusation against someone.
As an adult, I know that I often need to stop and think before I speak. Hopefully I can instill this in them in the early years!
What about you?
Other than the obvious inappropriate words, are there words that you don’t allow in your home?